Sexual Attraction Secrets With Women
November 1, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
Author: Chris Tyler
You probably already know by now that you have to be able to create sexual attraction with a woman IF you want to be able to go beyond the initial stages and become intimate with a woman. This is where things go wrong for most men. Instead of triggering sexual attraction with a woman they are dating or they have just met, things come across way too platonic. As a result, they don’t end up being seen in the eyes of a woman as a man that she wants to be with as more than a friend. What can YOU do differently to create sexual attraction with a woman? 1. Your approach has to be different. From the onset, a woman usually knows whether or not she is going to sleep with a woman or if he is nothing more than a friend. When you approach a woman, you have to be able to trigger her attraction from the get go. You cannot use the passive approach and expect to spark fireworks with a woman. 2. You have to learn to escalate. You cannot go from hello straight to the bedroom. Well, not usually at least. You have to be able to escalate things with her in steps. When you first approach a woman and she is attracted to you, it’s not an automatic green light. You have to keep increasing her attraction for YOU, until she cannot resist it, ANYMORE. 3. You have to be a risk taker. This does not mean to go out and jump out of a plane. Women ARE attracted to men that have alpha male qualities. One of these is to be a risk taker. Instead of standing there, waiting to make your move on her, just make it. You’d be surprised how many times guys lose a woman’s interest because they waited TOO long. Sexual Attraction Secrets Learn how to get the girl and get Dating Tips For Men Copyright © 2009 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved. Guy Gets Girl Review
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Beware of Becoming a Professional Online Dater
October 30, 2009 by joetracy · Leave a Comment
By Joe Tracy, lead visioneer of the DateLists.com Online Dating Directory
Every year, hundreds of thousands of people find their “perfect match” through online dating services. And every year hundreds of thousands more become discouraged from their experiences. One of the contributing factors to those who have problems with online dating is the emergence of the “professional online dater”, a term coined by Online Dating Magazine to describe a person who acts serious about finding someone, but without the intention of taking any date or relationship “too seriously” because the next match “may be better.”
A professional online dater usually possesses three or more of the following habits:
> Communicating with more than six people at the same time.
> Member of three or more online dating services at the same time.
> Relists profile within 24 hours of a relationship breakup.
> Lets several communications just “end” in order to put time into new communications.
> Checks messages and dating services several times a day.
> Always believes that the next match “may be better”.
> Several times a year will have more than one date, with different people, set up in a week.
> At the first sign of trouble in a potential relationship, lets things break off to return to online dating.
> May hide profile, but doesn’t delete it, when steadily dating one person.
> When returning from a date, immediately checks mail for new messages from others.
Generally, a person doesn’t consciously say “I want to become a professional online dater” then pursue it as a life goal. It is something that develops as a result of the person’s online dating experiences. He/she sees how “easy” it is to get a new date and is introduced to new faces virtually daily. Before the person knows it, he/she is communicating with half a dozen (or more) people at the same time. When a date is arranged with one person there are still six prospects waiting in the person’s Inbox when he/she returns from the date. This, in turn, starts to develop a subconscious mentality that the next person may be “better,” therefore it is easier to leave a relationship or dating experience at the first sign of trouble rather than work through those problems.
A professional online dater will generally ‘hide’ a profile versus deleting it when entering into an exclusive dating relationship. Subconsciously, the person isn’t truly giving his or her 100% to the relationship because they have formulated an easy escape route back to the planet of dates.
Professional online daters, without realizing it, are having a negative effect on the people they come in contact with during their expeditions. For example, a professional online dater may be writing seven people at the same time, when another new interesting prospect shows up. In turn, the professional online dater allows communication with one (or more) of the other seven people to suddenly stop, leaving that person without answers and wondering, “where did he/she disappear to?” The other problem professional online daters bring to online dating is their lack of true commitment. They may have three, four or even more relationships a year. The relationships are generally short-lived and the professional online dater has a new date lined up (with someone new he/she met online) within several days of a breakup.
A person who possesses three or more traits of a professional online dater may not want to admit that he/she is a professional online dater, but doing so is the first step to solving the problem. Other steps to solving the problem are:
> Completely delete your profile(s) when entering into a relationship. There’s no looking back, only forward.
> Commit yourself to your relationship with a strong determination to work through the problems. Working through issues in a relationship is what helps people to grow. Running away is not the solution.
> If you stop communicating with someone, don’t do it cold turkey. At least send that person a polite note so that he/she knows why. The person will respect you more for this.
> Find one online dating service that you like and stick with it. This isn’t a game to see how many new people you can communicate with. Every person you communicate with is a real person with real feelings. Don’t lead them on.
> Only communicate with a small number of people at a time.
> Don’t fall into the mentality of “the next one might be better.” Instead, focus on the person you are with and know that they are “the best”. Then make it work.
Professional online daters unintentionally hurt many people during the course of their “adventure”. But perhaps what’s worse is that professional online daters hurt themselves because they never learn to work through relationship issues that produce long-term relationship success. Luckily, with determination, professional online daters can change and when they put the same intense focus on a relationship (like they did with online dating) then the relationship generally turns into an amazing and long-lasting experience. And that produces another success story from two people who met online.
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Joe Tracy is the lead visioneer of the new DateLists.com Online Dating Directory, a directory and reference resrouce for online daters.
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5 Simple Safety Rules for Women using Online Dating
October 23, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
Online Dating has gone main-stream, and as a single Woman in the 21st century you can’t afford to pass it by if you want to find the man of your dreams.
Online dating can be a rewarding and satisfying experience, but you shouldn’t neglect to look after your safety and follow some simple rules to make your
online dating experience a good and memorable one:
Rule 1: Keep your private information private. Don’t give out sensitive information that people can exploit. If your dating partner is pushing you to give
out information you should terminate the relationship immediately.
Rule 2: Only use the tools and features of the dating service you belong to. There are a lot of imposters out there who are trying to drag you into another
service “to deepen the conversation”, the problem is that these services aren’t free and cost a lot of money.
Rule 3: Don’t chat, mail or meet with people who are trying to push you into a meeting too early. These people may have other interests in you that you don’t
expect. Although a lot of things have become better, there are still a lot of scammers out there, believe me.
Rule 4: You never really know who the person behind a dating profile really is, so it’s safer to make a background check before meeting the first time in
person. Most legitimate dating sites can provide you with information on companies or individuals who perform these background checks.
Rule 5: If you’ve decided to meet your dating partner face-to-face you should make sure you meet in a public place with many other people around, you could
even ask a friend to to keep an eye on things from a safe distance if you’re nervous. The safest time for a meeting is in the daytime. Keep this in mind.
Remember…you never know who is on the other end of the internet-line. Although their number has decreased, there are still perverts, nerds and criminals
around on those dating sites and you should make sure not to fall for one of their scams.
Most online dating meetings end up as a very happy experience, it just pays to be careful to start off with to avoid any unwanted heartaches.
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Is Online Dating a Good Choice for You?
October 9, 2009 by KimLance · Leave a Comment
Online dating has quickly become the number one choice for singles to meet people to date. The online dating industry has been continually growing in popularity and for good reason. If you are on the fence about whether to try out online dating as a way to find romance, consider these five positive reasons why using an online dating service might be a good choice for you.
1. Greater Choice
A single utilizing an online dating service has a better choice of potential matches than a single using more traditional dating methods like the local bar or coffee shop. With online dating you are allowed to browse through several profiles looking for that special someone. When you head to the corner coffee shop you only have a chance of meeting a handful of single people, and sometimes never meet anyone at all. With online dating you have greatly increased your chances of finding someone interesting.
2. Get What You Want
Many online dating services allow you to search through profiles based on certain key phrases or through a filtering process. By only looking through profiles that have the word “Christian” or “sports fan” in them, you have an increased chance in finding someone that shares your views and interests and eliminated those that don’t. When you meet a man or woman at a bar, you have no way of telling right off the bat if they are Christian or Atheist, a San Diego Charger’s fan or if they think that football is a violent sport. By using search functions and filtering on online dating services to identify profiles of potential matches, you can eliminate the time spent looking through profiles of people that do not share your interests.
3. Personal Info Can Stay Private
A great thing about online dating is its anonymity. When initiating contact with someone you have been attracted to online, you don’t have to give out any personal information…not even your email address. You can take time to really get to know a person before giving out personal information like your phone number, unlike other forms of meeting people. If you meet someone at a singles spot, you are forced to give away your phone number in order to keep in contact, even if you have just met the person and don’t know enough about him or her to know if they have good intentions.
4. Fears and Embarrassment Can Be Reduced
If you decide to contact someone though email you can take the time to really plan out what you want to say to that person with online dating. If you see someone across the room and try to approach them, sometimes nerves and embarrassment can get the best of you. You may have planned out what you were going to say, but when you approach it all gets flustered coming out of your mouth. With online dating you can sit down and think about your email, read it over a couple times, and send it knowing that you have expressed yourself to the best of your ability. The social awkwardness that can come with approaching someone on the fly in person is virtually eliminated.
5. It’s a One on One Experience
At a bar, club, coffee shop, or other traditional singles meeting place, it is almost impossible to make a personal connection with someone you are interested in. There is active competition for attention at these social gatherings and a one on one interaction can be very hard to come by. With online dating it is personal right from the beginning. You communicate one on one in a private email conversation with the person you are interested in and are able to form a personal connection right off the bat, rather than compete in a room full of other single guys and gals all out for the same goal.
For singles fed up with the traditional dating scene, and looking for a change, online dating may be the way to go. You can meet more people with similar interests without sharing personal information and, once you find the perfect profile, you can form an immediate personal connection. It is certainly worth a try.
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Kim Lance is the Associate Publisher of Online Dating Magazine, an Internet publication covering online dating through news, reviews, experiences, interviews, and articles.
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Three Tips for Online Dating Success
October 1, 2009 by KimLance · Leave a Comment
By Kim Lance, Associate Publisher of Online Dating Magazine
New to the online dating scene? Well, believe it or not, online dating can be just as competitive, if not more so, than traditional dating. Don’t let that discourage you, however. Many people have found a date, and often marriage, through online dating services. There are tips and strategies that can help you get your profile noticed over your competition. Here are three strategic steps you can take that can give your profile the look and feel it needs to attract the kind of people you would love to meet.
Tip 1: Pick the Perfect Profile Photo
Your photo is one of the most important factors that will attract people to your profile. First and foremost, make sure you have a recent picture. Sure that picture of you in the bikini while on college spring break back in 1995 may be cute, but when your date meets you expecting you to look like you did in college, your date will be disappointed. This can create mistrust and cause your date to feel upset and deceived. This is never a good thing when trying to start a relationship.
Also, pick a photo that will show off your best features. Make sure you are wearing a friendly smile, it will be much more inviting than a serious pose or, obviously, a frown. Always avoid photos where you are with another person, or, worse yet, you have chopped the other person out of the photo, only to leave behind a mysterious arm. Your date may be confused by which person is actually you or wonder who the “mysterious arm” belongs to.
Tip 2: Use Your Username to Reveal Your Interests
You may think your username is just your way to log in to your online dating service, but this isn’t the case. Your username is one of the first things that someone will read about you and a good username can mean the difference between a profile view and a profile pass up. A common technique is to go with the traditional anonymous username like “Jenny321” but why miss out on a key opportunity to catch someone’s attention or reveal a bit about yourself?
Make your username original and make it say a little something about your personality. Pick “SweetSinger” as your username if your hobby is singing or “DodgersDude” if your an avid Dodgers fan looking for company. Your clever username will not only share a little bit about your personality or interests, but can also attract people with the same interests. But be careful not to give the wrong impression. Just because you interpret the username “FunLovin” to mean you love to have fun, the person viewing your profile may think “FunLovin” means you are looking for some fun lovin’, if you know what I mean.
Tip 3: Don’t Say It, Prove It! And Be Specific
When developing your profile description, you may be tempted to write something like “I’m funny and smart with a good sense of humor.” This is simply a boring list of adjectives… the same adjectives that are showing up on thousands of other profiles. If you want your profile to really stand out, you need to describe yourself through specifics.
Instead of saying you are “funny” or have a “good sense of humor”, make your profile funny. Crack a couple of tasteful jokes or relate a funny incident. This will prove to your viewer what sort of sense of humor you have. If your sense of humor is attractive to that viewer, they will contact you. Rather than just stating that you are “smart”, list your favorite books or your interests that would prove to your viewer how smart you are. This will also give your viewer some specific examples that he or she will be able to relate to directly.
Remember, just because you have a profile up, doesn’t necessarily mean you will immediately get responses. These three tips will certainly help, but play around with the contents of your profile until you start getting the results you want. If no one is responding to your list of interests, put up some new ones. Switch your photos every once in a while to see what sort of response you receive. As you experiment with your online dating profile, you will hopefully begin to find the responses you have been looking for.
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Kim Lance is the Associate Publisher of Online Dating Magazine, an Internet publication covering online dating through news, reviews, experiences, interviews, and articles.
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Free Online Dating Tips – Everything You Need to Know
August 2, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
With the advent of the internet comes innovative ways to meet your significant partner. Dating has evolved into online dating. The meeting and getting to know phase are usually done on the web via email or live chat sites instead of face to face. This kind of acquaintance has its pro’s and con’s. It can help to prevent you from dating someone you do not like or it can help you to get to know your potential partner first before pursuing commitment.
However, dating online does not always end up happily ever after. It is wise to be cautious and check out free online dating tips available. The internet offers tips that could help to ensure that your online dating is a success.
Among the popular tips you can find on the net have to do with setting up your dating profile. Online dating requires a participant to have a profile that lists biographies and other useful information to help people get to know you better. This profile should be completed and answered truthfully. This will help other people to decide whether or not you are a good match for them, so take the time to answer each question carefully.
Posting a good photo of yourself is also an important factor for online dating. Pictures should be current. As much as possible, post pictures that have similar angles so as not to confuse the person that is checking you out. Also, be sure that the photos you post are of yourself, not of your pets, house, or friends. Being honest about your appearance is a good start to an online dating relationship, when the time comes to meeting face to face, at least your partner will know what you really look like.
When meeting up with someone that you found online, be extra cautious. Even if you have been dating online for quite sometime, a person’s reaction and attitude can be very different upfront. It is safe to meet in public. Make it brief and if possible, ask a friend to come with you. Get a feel for the person you are meeting, try to decide if you are going to be compatible. Don’t be in a rush to reveal too many personal details about your self until you get to know your date very well, keep the thought in the back of your mind that there are many people who are doing this just to take advantage of you, let your new date prove otherwise.
As long as you exercise caution and common sense, online dating can be a whole lot of fun, you may end up finding your soulmate, who you’ve been searching for all those years, or you could find the passionate lover that was missing in your life, igniting the fire inside you that had all but burned out. Starting out on a new romance can be so exciting, like setting off on a new adventure exploring new places that you had so long dreamed of.
Online Dating Advice
July 26, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
The first thing you’re going to do after you have signed up at an internet dating site is to create your profile, which includes a good photo of your self and an appealing, but honest description of yourself. If you want to rise above the rest, you will write some personal attention grabbing headlines and maybe even some humorous stories about yourself to highlight the fact that you have a sense of humor and are definitely not a boring individual.
When you have posted your profile, it’s time to start searching for that dream date. You enter you requirements into the sites search engine and within a few seconds a good assortment of profiles will be presented to you.
Before you get to carried away with the profiles you are viewing there are some things you should consider before deciding on your dream date, look for qualities that appeal to you about the persons profile you are viewing, qualities that stand out in a less than flattering way.
When you get to the stage of contacting a prospective date there are some guidelines that should always be observed. Firstly, never give out too much personal information, such as your address or your financial details, remember that there are a lot of very unscrupulous individuals in cyberspace that will go out of their way to scam you. It is even unwise to give out your personal email address to someone in the early stages of contact, get to know them first through the dating site and wait until the chemistry is right before you take that step.
Avoid subjects like politics and religion when you are getting to know someone through online dating, other issues such as drugs, drinking and the prospect of having children can send a prospective date running for cover. Take time to get to know your new friend, after you have exchanged several messages with each other you will start to get to know that person and know from the feelings you are exchanging whether you are going to be compatible or not.
Compatibility is the fundamental necessity for a relationship to work. This is a real advantage for online dating, because you can really get to know a person through communication before actually meeting them in person. Remember that your perfect partner is not based on the way he or she looks, it is all about compatibility, how often have you heard of people saying that they have found their ‘soulmate’. A soulmate is someone who you meet and all the chemistry is just right, a friend and a lover all rolled into one.
Dating and online dating is all about finding that person who you really ‘connect’ with. Take the time to find that special person you have always been searching for and you will live happily for ever after.
Flirting Techniques – A Must Read
July 25, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
A key to finding a potential partner in life is to be able to know the right way to flirt. Flirting is not always bad. With the right technique and timing, flirting could very well help one achieve or get the person he desires.
Flirting is a way in which a person exhibits gestures that could give a hint of attraction toward the other person. As our current lifestyle dictates, flirting has became aggressive that is why most people shy away form it to avoid rejection. To compensate with this liberating show of attraction, some people react negatively especially to those people that is not their type. Sometimes the mistake is not with the person who does the flirting but with the flirting techniques used.
An effective flirting technique that works among both genders is to simply smile. Smiling makes the other person feel at ease. It helps brighten their day. When a person saw someone smiling, they may feel confident to approach you and who knows what will happen next.
Another technique that works well is the act of getting caught. When you see someone that gets your attention, make him notice you by staring. Be patient until the time the other person notices you. Almost always, it would not take long since our peripheral vision usually does the job. If the gesture works, that is if you get caught, smile for a few seconds before looking away.
Usually, when a person is attracted to the opposite gender, wholesome gestures are automatically changed to a more sensual approach. This flirting technique is shown through having a soft voice or sensual looks and definitely grabs the attention of the opposite sex.
Online Dating Provides Something For Everyone
April 5, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
Online dating is a great way to meet people and possibly find that special person you have always dreamed about. You may never know what is out there if you do not give it a try.
There are many sites out there and you may be confused which one to sign up for. You may want to find a site that is suited to your age group, or a more popular site that offers a wide variety of people to meet and get to know. You can also sign up for more than one site.
Online dating is usually purchased for a small monthly fee and some sites offer upgrades if you pay a little more that helps your profile to get noticed. We buy the best clothing and cars to stand out in the world and online dating is no different. If your budget can afford it you should get as many upgrades as you can afford to get yourself noticed.
You also need to allow some careful consideration and thought to your profile. This is your first impression and should be treated with the utmost importance. You do not want to sound rude or harsh in your profile. You also do not want to give out too much information. There is plenty of time to get to know a person and you do not want to lay everything out there at first.
Online dating is a great way to meet a variety of people and even possibly find your love match. If you follow some rules you can make this a very enjoyable experience.
Online Dating Is A Safe Way To Meet People
April 5, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
If you are looking for a safe, fun way to meet and date people, you may want to consider online dating. Online dating is gaining popularity and losing the stigma once attached to it. If you take your time and use some tools, you can begin dating in no time.
When you are dating online it is considered a safe way because you can gain some valuable information from a person before meeting them in real life. You often will have numerous conversations before meeting and you will be able to tell right away if there is chemistry or if you want to move on.
It is much easier to decline a dating invitation online if you do not feel a connection. You can also gain some good knowledge by a person’s profile. You will be able to tell if you have things in common and what their personal goals are before meeting them.
There are still some critics about the world of online dating and its safety. If you think about the traditional way of meeting someone which normally involves a bar and hanging out with a person you know nothing about, you can make your own judgments about which way is safer.
Online dating is quickly becoming the newest, greatest way to date and meet new people. There are many sites specifically geared for a particular population of people with similar interests. If you are a business person looking specifically for other business people you can find a dating site for you. Dating is a fun thing to do if you know the tips to be successful.